I’ll be honest…I am in a really bad place as far as the adoption goes right now. We heard over a month ago that a birth mom was looking at our portfolio along with 6 others. 2 weeks later we are told she narrowed it down to us and one other couple and that she really likes us. After 2 weeks of hearing nothing we called our social worker who said she was sick and hadn’t been able to call but that the birth mom hadn’t decided yet.
It’s been 2 weeks since that update and we still know nothing. Now I realize and have come to terms with the fact that we must not have been chosen but I feel that I need the closure of an official update from our agency. I just need to hear for sure that we were not picked. Is that weird? Am I expecting too much?